codependent (no more) love spell (1/26)

if you wished me well
i would eat it for supper
& ask for another

i wouldn't so much
as demand

i would take a stand
stake my claim in the 
game of every time
you tell me yes i want
a thousand more

my eyes grow big 
when you give me
what i think i need,
& i want to fill myself
with your blessings

like a hose offering
water to a baby pool
something cool & con
sistent to depend on

let me sink inside
your gifts, cleanse
my own skin in your
immersions

survey says, 
BABE, THIS IS 
CODEPENENCE!

who doesn't want 
mommy's love 
& compliments,

a sense of safety
cradled in her yes
or no-- we know
better now, honor
the kindness, take 
it in, let it circulate

the dopamine of 
other people's 
reassurance a quick
narcotic if we aren't 
careful, reprogram 
into receive with grace

& love thyself 

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